The Pleasure Path: Your Guide to Erotic Self Discovery
Your fun & practical guide to claiming what you want in the bedroom, shame-free!
Want to be able to finally answer the question, “What do you want?” Get ready to get confident!
June 1, 2025
The Pleasure Path is your path to joyful intimacy - starting with yourself.
This digital course – packed with practical tools, playful accountability, myth-busting facts, and detailed resources – is everything you need to get on track kicking embarrassment & guilt to the curb, and stepping into your most confident sexual self!
“If you know deep down that you want to explore your sexuality and sensuality on a deeper level, taking The Pleasure Path will allow you to open up the space within yourself that has been locked away. It is truly such important work to do if you want to thrive in your intimate life, and awaken your inner sex goddess that has always wanted to shine!”
THIS COURSE IS FOR YOU IF
You're a Giver
Always focusing on others, taking care of others, setting aside your own needs & desires. You aren’t really sure what you want in the bedroom, but if you’re ready to change that and you know you could use some support to follow through, this is for you!
You struggle to shake off those shame-y messages about sex & your body
You know the shame-speak, like that attitude that married hetero missionary in the dark might be ok, but anything “different” probably means you’re “messed up.” You know logically that that’s not true, but you still feel bad in the bedroom. If you’re ready to connect with your body and your own erotic self & feel good about it, this is for you.
You get stuck in your head during intimacy
You overthink it- worry you’re taking too long, doubt you’re doing it “right,” wonder if you’re looking attractive, suddenly realize you forgot to call your mom back- when oops, you wanted to be in your pleasure zone. If you feel like an amazing sex life is possible, but you’re not sure what to do differently to get there, this is for you.
After completing the pleasure path, you will have what you need to...
Strut your stuff
Feel more confident and self-assured in your sex life, knowing that you can satisfy yourself and take pleasure into your own hands.
Enjoy the moment
Get out of your head and into your erotic zone. Savor a more fulfilling and satisfying intimate life, potentially enhancing your orgasms and increasing your desire along the way.
know & love on your body
Gain a deeper understanding of your own body and what brings you enjoyment, so you can more confidently express yourself with a partner.
Kick shame out of your bedroom
Learn to let go of societal taboos and embrace your sexuality, living YOUR values, discovering and celebrating your heart’s desires.
What else are people saying about self-discovery and self-love in doing this work?
“Since I attended your class, I started dressing nice and putting on lipstick every day because I like feeling sexy. And since almost all of my clothes are too small, I bought myself a Valentine’s day gift. I also had a couple of dates and allowed myself aaallll the pleasure 🥰 I won’t condone making myself live off of scraps of attention anymore.
This is a really huge deal for me and the first step in healing a lifelong wound that started before I could even talk 😭 You changed my life, Julia. I mean, I know I’m changing my life, but you gave me the spark. There are no words for how important that is. ❤️ I just wanted you to know that.”
Ready to let yourself feel all the pleasure? Let’s go!
Your Four steps to Owning your pleasure:
Part 1: Permission for Pleasure & Play
Tools, information & practices to redefine sex, overcome shame, & show up with curiosity in place of judgment. Learn a method to help you reflect on what you want, & enhance your feelings of joy & pleasure.
Part 2: Erotic Imagination
Your brain is the largest sex organ; let’s explore what it can do! Explore what type of fantasy, thoughts, and erotica get your mental juices flowing.
Part 3: Mindful Sensuality
Practice using your senses, focusing on the sensations, and being fully present in your body, in the moment. Get out of your head and into more sensations!
Part 4: Build your toolbox
Think outside the box when it comes to sex, and lean into what actually makes your desire light up! Boost your creativity, increase your fun, & amplify your sensations. You’ll also learn about all kinds of toys and other pleasure enhancements.
What People Are Saying
“Working with Julia is like having the best friend you always wish you had in that she is both very knowledgeable about sexuality as well as open, inviting, and non judge-mental. You can feel safe being yourself with her, and she can truly help answer any questions you have and work with you to improve all aspects of your sex life. She is so kind, funny, and knowledgeable and makes me feel both safe and normal. I just adore her and have already learned so much and I can’t recommend her enough.”
“A lot of people share information, but they are not very good educators. Julia did a fantastic job in keeping the class engaged and entertained. The material was shared in a very digestible and understandable way. Even her interactive portions of the class were done so well that it was non-threatening.”
“I grew up in a family and a culture where it was inappropriate to talk about sex, so, needless to say, I had lots of preconceived ideas and myths that were keeping me from enjoying my sexuality to the fullest. Julia helped bust those stereotypes and helped me feel more comfortable with my sexuality! She is so wonderful to work with! She has a way of instantly making one feel at ease with having these usually uncomfortable, but necessary conversations. I highly recommend her!”
PLUS GET THESE BONUSES:
Sexy Selfies for Every Body
For all body types & genders, you are already sexy exactly as you are! Get more body confidence showcasing your own sexy self with these pro tips by photographer Tiffany Joyce with Hype Girl Boudoir! Her quick class for men and women covers lighting, what to wear, location tips, and of course, suggested (+ suggestive) poses! One quick class to feel fabulous and take a shot to see how sexy you truly are!
Body Love in (Slow) Motion
Cultivate a deeper and more loving connection with your body through this session with trauma-informed yoga therapist Kierstin von Frangenberg. In this class, you’ll practice being fully present in your body without judgment, with gentle yoga movements and soothing breathwork to calm your mind. This includes a great introductory practice to mindful self touch in a non-sexual context.
Self Pleasure Bingo!
Need some inspiration for self love? Get ideas for playful and empowering action steps, to step into more pleasure and enjoyment. Each bingo square features an activity to deepen your connection with your sensual self. Get “bingo” by July 1 and be entered into a drawing to win a gift certificate for a new toy! Self Pleasure Bingo is extra motivation to make pleasure a simple, ongoing practice in your life.
Meet Your Coach & Sexologist
Hi! I'm Julia Satterlee, Founder of Pleasure Wise Wellness
I’m passionate about YOUR passion!
With certifications from the American Board of Sexology and Sex Coach U, plus more than two decades of experience in sex education, adult education, & human rights advocacy, this is what I was made for.
I bring not just insights but also tools and practices for more pleasure, without the shame, blame, or pain that often happens when our bodies and our love lives don’t work the way we think they’re supposed to.
In private practice since 2019, it brings me great joy to spark joyful intimacy for couples & single folks. My approach is science-informed, kindness-centered, kink-friendly & practical.
Once upon a time, I WAS a person who felt too awkward to tell my partner what I truly wanted in bed, even though I was a professional sex educator! I had the information for sexual health, but that wasn’t enough to help me have the intimate life I wanted- with all the deep pleasure and connection we all dream of.
I don’t want it to take years for you to feel more comfortable with your sexual self. Life’s too short to suffer through your sex life; I want you to fully ENJOY it!
I created this course for that past version of myself, and for you, if you’re like so many other people I have worked with as a Clinical Sexologist, and you just don’t know yet exactly what you want in bed- or how to communicate it- but you really wish you did. If you’re ready to explore yourself & embrace your desire, I can’t wait to support you!
Sign up today!
FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS
Is this open to men or women only?
The course is geared towards women and non-binary people with a clitoris.
However, much of the content applies to any body, so anyone is welcome to purchase the self-study course.
What are the dates for the course?
You will have access to the course upon purchase. The live sessions will be at 8pm EDT on Sundays in June 2025, except for Father’s Day. The dates for live group sessions are:
June 1
June 8
June 22
June 29
Am I supposed to do anything sexual during group sessions?
No, there’s no nudity or sexual activity happening during our live session time. And you’ll never be expected to do anything you don’t want to do- all suggested activities are optional, and activities are completed on your own time, not during group time. The point is to tune in to your own wants and needs, so while it’s good to get a little outside of your comfort zone, you never need to go beyond your boundaries.
Do I have to attend all the live sessions?
No. If you prefer not to attend group sessions at all, you’re welcome to sign up for the Pleasure Explorer course version, which only includes the course with no group access.
If you sign up for the Pleasure Adventurer or Pleasure Alchemist course version, you’re welcome to come to any or all 4 of the group sessions. It is not mandatory.
We will decide as a group if all participants want to record our group sessions or not.
How long will I have access to the course?
You’ll have guaranteed access for six months from your date of purchase, so you have plenty of time to take it slow, along with the motivation to keep practicing and finish fairly soon.
If you need more time beyond that, you’re welcome to let Julia know and she will honor your request if possible.
How much time will I need to complete the course?
You can make fast progress by spending 60 minutes a week on this, or slower but steady progress with about 30 minutes a week.
Each module of the course has around 20-30 minutes of video, at least one pdf, plus further suggestions for questions to think about and activities to try. There are four modules, plus bonus classes and a one hour introductory masterclass.
Additionally, you’re encouraged to try some things from the self pleasure bingo card. Many of the activities there take 10 minutes or less, such as “put on clothes or accessories that make you feel fabulous,” or “replay a great sexy moment in your head.” Some activities there do take longer as well, as taking your time to fully experience the moment is part of the course.
Additionally, the live sessions will be 45 minutes each.
If I get a 1:1 session with the course, when do I need to book the session?
You have six months from the date of purchase to use your 1:1 session.
You can use your session to help you get started, to wrap up the course with an extra boost of confidence, or if you get stuck in the course at any time and need a deeper dive into a topic.
Now is the time to prioritize YOU & embrace your desires! Don't miss out!
