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The Modern Version of Hairy Palms

The Modern Version of “Hairy Palms”

Are you old enough to have heard that self pleasure would give you hairy palms? Or make you go blind? These were common things we told people about...
Not swept off your feet by desire Here's how to invite it in

Not swept off your feet by desire? Here’s how to invite it in.

I've written before about the difference between wanting and entitlement — how owning a want doesn't require anyone else to do anything. It's yours...
Why No Might Be the Sexiest Word in Your Relationship

Why “No” Might Be the Sexiest Word in Your Relationship

Let's talk about boundaries (yes, really) I want to talk about boundaries today, and I already know how that lands for most people. Some of you just...
Fab Facts about the Clitoris

Fab Facts about the Clitoris

 Ignorance- especially when it comes to crucial parts of our bodies- is NOT bliss. Women's bodies are less studied, and pleasure certainly is not at the forefront of what's typically taught about women's sexuality. This glaring omission is a disservice to us all, so...

Four Keys to Climax

Four Keys to Climax

If you're having trouble with orgasms, no matter what anatomy you have, there are four basic keys - or areas to improve - for more pleasure and much better orgasms.  1.  How present and open to receiving pleasure in your body are you?  This is a big area where people...

About Julia

Julia, a Board-Certified Sexologist, passionately dedicates her days to dispelling myths and shining light on taboo topics, so that you can shine brighter, too.

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